hello all
am new here but wanted to say I just lost my wife who was 54 years old to a gliobastoma tumour
She battled 3 years and 1 day against this disease and what a battle it was
Hi golfmad01
I'm so sorry to hear about your wife. It must have been devastating. Sending thoughts and prayers and hugs. I hope you have a supportive network around you as this must be a really difficult time x
This community is very welcoming, as is the glioblastoma forum, and I think there are bereavement forums too, though I'm not at that stage yet. My wife is similar age to yours - just 53 when she was diagnosed and had surgery. That was nearly a year ago and we're just coming to the end of chemo. I am finding the 'phoney war' part of this quite hard to deal with - denial, hope, fear but no major symptoms for now. Was your wife's battle constant through her three years or did she have good quality of life for some of it?
Take care
H
Hi H
My wife had one hell of a journey
Started in October 2020 when admitted to hospital with confusion slurred speech, MRI revealed a tumour which was confirmed as GBM, had a debulk in November 2020 then started 6 weeks of chemo and radiotherapy just after xmas, then once that was completed went onto 6 cycles of tremozolide 5 days in /23 days off, during this oeriod she was lambing 10 hours a day at the farm, no effects
recurrent op in Nov 2022 was success again but developed infection, so opened up again but bounced back in style, Feb seen her admitted to hospital with pneumonia and covid, yet she bounced back again, Scan in Aug showed tumour infiltrated into brain, back onto oral chemo but stopped after 2 cycles due to side effects, lost all mobility at that point but still managed at home with wheelchair and me, ended up in hospital start Oct for respite and after 10 days got her home where sadly she become very agitated and delirium set in, was sedated and passed away 4 days later
been a hell of a journey lots of good times not a lot of poor times just mainly at end
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