HI Mypies
Yes, all these fears are perfectly normal and this group is a safe space to express them.
Glad to hear the pre-op went well and that you have the facts. It is actually easier to cope when you know the facts and you're not stressing about the "what ifs". In reality there is only so much planning you can do but take it all one step at a time and you will find your way through this but be prepared to adapt the plans if you have to.
As for what to do with your emotions... oh if only we all knew the answer to that! In my own experience, let the emotions flow. This is a traumatic time for you too and it will take time to get those emotions under control. It's only natural to feel fear. I was positively terrified when my husband went for his surgery and even more terrified when he first came home but take things slowly...take it one step at a time
The strongest, most resilient people are those who show their emotions as it means you are not bottling it all up or letting it fester.
Remember this group is here to support you and to listen so you're not facing this alone. You can also reach out to MacMillan direct. The helpline number is below.
You're doing great here. (You'll just need to trust me on that) Sending you a huge virtual hug.
love n hugs
Wee Me xx
Macmillan Support Line - 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week between 8am-8pm
