Difficult Days

I’ve just been reading through more recent posts. I’m so very sorry to hear that you’ve lost your dad. I do hope that you and your mum are coping as well as can be expected. I’m just about to visit with my parents after 6 months. We don’t live close. I can’t imagine how you’re both feeling. I’m sorry if my comment is clumsy. I’m having a very emotional time at the minute. Sending you lots of hugs.

Oh it’s not clumsy at all . 

I hope you have a lovely with your parents . You have been through a lot since you last saw them so hold onto the precious time together and enjoy .

I am sorry you are having an emotional time . Sometimes it’s after things calm a bit that the emotions spring to the surface .

You have done incredibly well . I quickly read your recent posts and see you had an additional tumour . That is quite common in the liver but they can sometimes group as one from what I remember from my mum .

The main thing it’s resected and gone .

We are coping . I found the last three weeks in hospital extremely hard  . I hated it for him . I knew he was so unwell and could not do much to help change that .

Our task tomorrow is to arrange hampers for the different wards . They were amazing .

Court 

Thank you Katz51

How are things going with you ?

Court 

Thats so kind of you Court when you have so much going on at the moment.

Im doing ok but am going to give the counseling a go.I rang macmillan today and hopefully will get on the list.I just feel as I am sure many do that I need to sort things out in my head.even nearly 3yrs post treatment.a biggish op,chemo then straight into covid was all a shock to the system.

Sorry to be a bit of a downer but you did ask!!!bet you wish you hadnt now !!!

All the best

Kath

I am glad I did . I was just speaking to a friend today and one point we talked about was the impact of covid on people who had health challenges over that period . It was horrendous for you having to face a lockdown when you were just recovering .

I am so glad you gave the helpline a call . Getting the opportunity to address some of this can only be a good thing and positive in itself .

You take special care ,

Court 

I could swear mum is gaining some strength and put on a bit of weight . I am not saying she is enjoying two sets of eyes on her diet all the time but that’s family life for you .!
Hope you are all relaxing and making a good start to your weekend .

Court 

Hi Court,

Good your mums home and doing ok. Hope you are good. 

Im off to Berwick on Monday for a week of chill. 

Lovely Faloola

How are you feeling post radiotherapy ? Hope you have a great week . 
Court 

Hi Court,

As strange as this may sound I actually think the pain in my hip is worse now post Radiotherapy. I’m having to take tramadol some days for the pain. Thank you I plan to no matter what as Time is precious xx

Hi Court

So pleased your mum is home and you are both alright. 

Very best wishes and hugs to you both

Nettie123