2 days off husbands liver resection after APR surgery

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Hi all

we are two days away from husbands planned operation for a liver resection for liver metastasis.

he health with his APR surgery quite well and “Ken butt” but I’m so nervous that again only 6 months later he’s having to have major surgery again. 

it’s robotic but still a 6 hour operation any advice from anyone would be grateful 

  • Hi  

    I noticed that your post hadn’t received a reply yet so I’m bumping it to the top of the discussions again and hope it will be seen by others with experience of this surgery.

    I had two major surgeries 9 weeks apart, and it was tough, but it’s amazing how the body copes. It’s natural to be nervous of course, but it sounds like your husband did well after the APR and will hopefully recover well from the liver surgery too. It will be a very long day for you waiting for the surgery to be done-my poor partner found that very hard, while I was blissfully unaware!

    Please look after yourself too, and I wish you both well going forward.

    Sarah xx


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  • Thank you for your reply xx yes today and tomorrow are going to be difficult for us both xx 

  • Was going to post to say best of luck. My husband been for pre op today for liver resection on 6th October. Sending good thoughts to you both. Please let us know how it goes when you get chance.

  • Thank you I will x glad you have your date now as well xx 

  • I hope we do its the third one we've been given! Been a bit chaotic tbh. Anyway super best wishes this time tomorrow it'll be done and dusted! 

  • That’s difficult as my hubbys cancelled one was as your arrange and prepare with work etc then have yo re-plan 

    fingers crossed Fingers crossed will let you know how it’ goes x

  • Hi  

    My mum had two liver resections . She said she found it easier to heal from than the bowel surgery . I think healing depends on the volume they remove . The first surgery she had four wedge resections and was out sea kayaking six weeks later.  The second one was a larger resection removing 73% of her liver . Recovery was much slower but each month as the liver regenerated you could see her improve . Six months later she was fully recovered and you would never know she had surgery .

    She had to watch out for hernias.  

    I would get a bit of advice from the dietitian if you can about the best foods to eat . 
    She never looked back though . It was the best thing she could have gotten . I don’t think she was in surgery for six hours although it felt like it as they kept her in recovery for a long time so don’t be surprised if you don’t hear anything for a while . The tools they use are amazing . As it cuts the same tool seals it closed . 
    All the very best ,

    Court 

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  • Thank you sooo much for this advice and lovely story that your mums recovered from  two well three surgeries xx 

    it’s positive it is amazing that the liver re-generates x

    Thank you 

  • I carried the weight of seeing her straight after surgery around with me for years . One day during casual conversation she mentioned she actually had very few memories of that time as she was on pain meds . Two weeks makes a big difference in the early days so hold onto that .

    All the very best to you and your husband .

    Court 

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  • I’ve been tonight he is pretty tired x had some conversation but he’s been sick a few times probably from the medication x 

    so now it’s positivity and healing Heart️‍