Radio/chemo vs surgery after Folfoxiri

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Hi. 

Back ground 

37 YOF 

diagnosed with stage 3 -T4, high rectal cancer in November 2025. 

Loop Ileostomy 05/12/25

Started Folfoxiri on boxing day (3 months in total) last does 05/03/26

CT and MRI very encouraging showing good response to chemotherapy. Shrinkage in tumour and lymph node now being small enough for an anterior resection. 

My oncologist wants to give me radiotherapy and IV Chemotherapy the 1st and last week or a 5 week/5 day per week course of radiation. 

My surgeon feels that I can have an anterior resection but feels both are good options . 

My worry. 

Radiation: will guarantee the menopause.

Could cause bladder damage

Bowel damage.

And sexual dysfunction damage. 

This may shrink the tumour further or may take it away. But will cause me some serious side effects. And may still need the surgery anyway. 

Vs surgery which will Take the cancer out 

May leave me with serious side effects 

May require adjunct therapies. 

Stoma may be reversible down the line. 

My question: has anyone been through this. 

What options did you choose.

Any and all advice welcome. 

I am swaying towards surgery because I want this out of me and I want to start recovering and need to get back to work for financial side. 

Thanks so much

Stacey 

  • Hi  and well done on getting to the end of the folfoxiri. If you click on my name then you’ll see I had a rectal tumour so had 5 weeks of chemoradiotherapy before my op. Yes it shrank the tumour by 75% but I still needed the op. I’ve seen people have a complete response from the chemoradiotherapy ie. no sign of the tumour - some are still clear 5+ years later and others have had a recurrence and had to have surgery anyway? 

    My personal opinion would be to have the surgery and make sure the tumour is removed once and for all. You may find that your bowel function will change - especially if you have your stoma reversed - but you will hopefully get used to a new normal over time. I don’t feel that the surgery had any serious side effects and you won’t know about any adjunct therapies until after the tumour and surrounding area has been removed and tested.

    The radiotherapy did have residual side effects - I was 53 when diagnosed so probably perimenopausal anyway but things are quite delicate ‘down there’ even now 9 years on!

    Hope this helps

    Karen x

    Macmillan Support Line - 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week between 8am-8pm
  • Karen thank you so much for your reply!! That's great information! 

    I really feel like I would be worrying a lot also about recurrence without the op. I am keen to have it removed and then go from there. 

    Worried about the side effects of radiotherapy. And thanks for being honest about your side effects. 

    I am seeing the oncologist on the 2nd then will have a scope at the end of the month. My surgeon rearranged for the end of the month so she can do it herself. So will make a proper decision after this. 

    In the mean time just building myself back up from chemotherapy (and thank you it sure was grim, but got there Muscle tone1) and trying to go about life normally because I feel good again. 

    Any hints /tips to help me prepare for surgery or anything you can think of haha. Are welcome! 

    Thanks again Karen. Lovely to speak to you xx

  • Just read your story Karen! 

    Just wow! You are a strong woman indeed! 

    Very inspiring! 

    But my goodness you were fair battered for a better expression. 

    So so happy that it has all been worth it

    And now you can support others!!! You should be so so proud of yourself. 

    Stacey x

  • Hi Stacey and thanks for the lovely post about my profile - my experience seems to have been very much a one off and most peoples is a lot more straight forward! 
    You sound to be on the right path for surgery - get as fit and healthy as you can and enjoy chemo free life for a bit. I’ve attached a link to a booklet about the various ops which has some great tips about things to pack etc. - an extra long charging cable is a must - and what to expect afterward.

    bcuk.adidocdn.dev/.../Bowel_Cancer_UK_Your_Operation_Booklet.pdf

    Hope you feel up to getting out and about and enjoying the spring weather and please keep me posted?

    Take care

    Karen x

    Macmillan Support Line - 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week between 8am-8pm
  • You really had quite the time Heart

    And thank you. This is my goal eat well (now my appetite has returned) and get out and about (back to the gym last week for some strength training and walking loads which has been great! Again giving me more of an appetite. Hopefully the spring weather returns soon. It has took a holiday In Dumbarton Glasgow haha. More like winter.. 

    Thank you for the booklet. It's great!! 

    I will definitely keep you updated on things. 

    Thank you so so much for taking the time to reply to me. You have really helped me loads 

    Take care also 

    Stacey xx