Hi all , Dave here...
Started peeing blood 6 weeks ago and frightened the life of of me so got referred to urologist who done a cystoscopy and the dreaded cancer was there. I am now awaiting CT scan then hopefully still contained within the bladder
Pre op tomorrow 17/12 , i know there's hundreds of people in the same boat as me but hopefully don't have to wait long for op.
I'm 63 but still scared , trying to get through each day. I'm pessimistic by nature but reading through some of your posts has really helped cope.
Thank you
Dave
Aston63 . Hi Dave and welcome to this supportive group, although sorry you find yourself here. I was also 63 when diagnosed. I'm now 73 if that is any reassurance. Bladder cancer can be treated successfully. Your pre op should be for your TURBT procedure. Ask any questions about that if you are not sure. Lots of experiences here to answer anything or just have a chat. We know how scary the early days can be. Best wishes.
Aston63 Hi Dave welcome to the forum. Well done for seeking medical help so quickly. You are doing everything right to move towards treatment, so go easy on yourself and put your trust in your treatment team. STAY AWAY FROM DR GOOGLE. Lots of help on here from people who who have shared the same journey. I was more or less where you are now, a year ago. All the best, Leo
Hi Rily
Thank you so much for your reply , your news has given me a lift and glad you're still here to reply to me.
Will it be ok if we keep in touch,? really need a friend like you right now. My wife has been a rock since diagnosed but need someone who has been through this experience to help me and hope i can help you in some way.
Kind regards
Dave
Thank you so much Leo , and yes i know Dr Google is what i did initially but i keep of it now. It's scary as you well know but as you say it's in the lap of the gods and the treatment team from now on.
I'm new to all this on here but i already know that I've got a new family of friends
Regards Leo my friend
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