Husband has just had a radical cystectomy

Hi there. I'm the one who had RC 12 years ago, but my husband has since said it was the worst day of his life. So you are not alone, in the role of concerned loved one, who can do nothing but watch & wait. Your husband will be very weak & tired at the moment, but day by day there should be improvement, although there can be ups and downs along the way. Try to be patient, find a distraction to keep you busy while he is in hospital. Feel free to ask any questions about what to expect during recovery. Best wishes.

Thank you for your support. My husband has a c.diff infection at the moment which is delaying his discharge from hospital but I understand this infection not unusual after RC

Hi,I’m so sorry to hear your husband has c.diff,I hope he is over that very soon and can come home.It’s natural to feel anxious.I hope that by joining us here you will feel supported.Love Jane 

It does help to put things down in writing 

That’s good.There are several of us on here who have been through this surgery and are doing well and leading full lives.

That’s encouraging to hear. Thank you 

I’m cancer free and had the op 4 years ago this Saturday.

That’s really encouraging. Thank you 

These early days post op are a worry to loved ones and I can understand your anxiety.With time and rest you start to get stronger.

Yes it is very stressful but really trying to stay positive and concentrate on the bigger picture