Hello, my dad got diagnosed yesterday with sarcomatoid cancer of the bladder and its aggressive and extensive. He was fine until he had some blood in his urine and then we've waited 7 weeks for results. We were sort of optimist going in and then boom. Our world's have been shattered. They are sending him to the oncology department next week but no idea what they'll offer. Apparently chemo and radio are options but it's like just throwing stuff at it blind apparently. I just need some comfort. I live with my mum and dad and I'm living every breath of this with them and it's horrendous to watch them so sad and helpless. Even if someone says I'm here if you need me would be enough at this stage we feel so isolated. You get told life changing news and then you just go home. It's mental - I can't believe this is the process but think it's normal. Anyway. hope everyone is having a pleasant day. The weather is changing to more autumnal feelings after our one week of sunshine! Best wishes Jen
