Hello there!

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I'm Kidney Been - I eventually found my way here from the general forum for newcomers. Learning how the web site works is a little challenging, but I'm getting the hang of it I hope! My thanks to those of you who have responded to my posts etc on there. Some of you are also on this more focussed forum for BC victims.

I will have a browse through the various threads, which will no doubt give me more of an insight into the subject and how it affects us etc. I think it is good to be able to talk anonymously to others in the same or similar position. I am trying to get used to the idea, of what is going to happen to my body shortly, with Radical Cystectomy and Urostomy due 11/01/22.

At least I should be completely out of it during the procedure, The last treatment was a TURBT done with an epidural, so it was really weird to be wide awake, while they were doing whatever to me from the other end of the table! Unfortunately, the tumour had invaded the bladder wall and muscle, so complete removal is the only realistic option.

I would have liked the next stage to proceed sooner, as I find the waiting quite hard, wondering whether it could spread somewhere else, as latest problem must have come from the original tumour in a kidney, removed nearly a year ago. Hence my user name, a kidney been removed! 

  • That’s lovely,you will be in safe hands during your recovery.I met John when he was working at the same firm as my sister.Sarah hated the job and the staff apart from John as the women were so catty.She invited him around to our house and we became friends.The following year we started going out together.We have been through so much,serious illness,bereavement,a major flood and my mother’s dementia.I’ve always done my best to support John and he has always been there for me.We have lurched from one crisis to the next but have stuck together.We have been together nearly 20 years.Best wishes Jane