Hi
I have just had a cystoscopy check up and a second tumor has been found, awaiting tula.
Had a tumor removed last November followed by 6 weeks of chemotherapy.
I am not coping so well this time, husband and son fell out 18months ago and don't speak, my husband goes into garage if they visit which isn't often, that means I don't see his three girls as much as I like, the family fall out is constantly on my mind and now so is the second tumor I am feeling I can't cope , husband is having memory problems that he won't admit to. My daughter and her daughter we see often and she is great support but don't want to burden her touch.
Husband is a narcissist and controlling, won't let me drive are car so I can have freedom.
What do I do I feel my head is going to explode, I have friends who understand my situations but they have their own lives
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