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Dolphin500
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Hi to all,

I am still waiting for my Cytoscopy to be done for pure blood in catheter I am very anxious the reason I am pushing for this my husband Always Smoked in front of me in the house for 39 years when I asked him to smoke outside always he refused so he's not ever shown me any respect after I had 4 children I didn't want to have another baby I was fine with 4 but he went against my wishes as usual 

And I was pregnant again all he's done is use me so if I have cancer he will be out of here belive me I already need a stoma and a superpubic cath and a gynelogical operation as his sister Amanda who is a sister at hospital delivered my son and she's not even a midwife at all just wears a blue uniform.

So I feel I've been let down many times by the NHS &People who R supposed to be my family they just don't care.

Dolphin500.

  • Hi Dolphin500, sorry to hear you are feeling let down by people and systems you trusted. I hope your cystoscopy date will come through quickly, and that it will give some helpful information about next steps for treatment. It's horrible waiting for tests, everyone on this site will understand that, we've all been there. Hx  

  • Hi Dolphin500,I’m so sorry you feel let down.I hope that you will feel supported in this group.Fingers crossed you will get your cystoscopy soon and get some answers and treatment.Love Jane xx

  • in reply to winkers60

    Hi Thankyou Jane

    I've had a phone call today about having my super pubic catheter done on the 18 th of October so I think they R doing that first before my colostomy and pelvic surgery.

    Hope everyone is OK and not having too many problems like I am trying to get the cats in.

    Dolphin500

  • in reply to Dolphin500

    Hi Dolphin500, glad you have a date, I found it helps to know when the next treatment is and that the system is working for you. Hopefully this will reduce the bleeding, and you will feel better supported by the NHS. Hx

  • in reply to Dolphin500

    Hi Dolphin500,It’s good you have a date now.Hopefully you are on the way to getting some help now.I hope it goes well.Love Jane xx

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