For the past 3 years I have been peeing way too much. About 8 times per night and 1 time per hour all day even when not drinking alot of water. I have a weak stream and it takes me about 21 seconds to pee it all out at that pace. If I drink the amount of water I'm supposed to drink per day I will pee about 2 to 3 times per hour. My symptoms started over 3 years ago but 11 months ago I had a cystoscopy which showed inflamation. I was scheduled for a a CT scan which came out clear and cytology which came out clear and a second cystoscopy which I didn't get a chance to go. Before I was able to get the scope I lost my insurance. In the past month I had a 24 hour urine collection that showed trace blood. (that was the first time ever showed trace blood in urine). I had my follow up cystoscopy finally today and it showed a small red mark that looked like a thin flat upside down redish triangle. I asked him if it could be interstitial cystitus and he said he doesn't think so because other wise It would be more spread out. I asked him if it could be cancer and he said it could be but he won't know anything until the biopsy.The dr scheduled me for a biopsy. I'm really scared. I'm male and I'm only 43. I have a 12 year old daughter that depends on me and her mom is mentally I'll so my daughter needs me here at least until she's old enough to have a good job and care for her self. I know I just need to wait till I get my biopsy to know for sure but I am stunned right now. What is the chance that a focused, flat red patch like that is not cancer? I'm feel like I'm floating in limbio right now. Is there hope that I don't have bladder cancer? And if it's not, what could cause a red spot like that in my bladder along with all of these symptoms? I already have health anxiety being a registered nurse so I'm having a hard time coping.
I didn't call MacMillan because I live in the US and I'm trying to avoid international charges. Money is tight right now.
How commonly does bladder cancer cause ascities?
Hi .We are not medics and so can only go on our own experiences, but being on here for many years, I cannot recall the subject coming up. I have searched the forum group and can find no mention of any connection of bladder cancer and ascites. Do your doctors have any information on this? Best wishes.
Ok, so they do offer online chat, green button bottom right of the screen on the website. Subject to staffing it's also 8-8, 7/7 and hoping for response within ten minutes.
Or they offer this number for callers outside UK, i don't know what it would cost.tel:+442070912230
Is there not anything equivalent to Macmillan in the US? I did think you were likely there as most folk here use Mum and you said Mom.
Best wishes, Denby
Hi and welcome you sound as though you do have a lot going on so I understand why your worried.
Its so hard waiting for various results and then feeling confident that the doctor has your back.
I wish you speedy results and as previously mentioned I’ve found this communication a God send so much card and positive energy please don’t worry about dabbling on as that’s me most of my life
keep positive sending hugs x
There is an American group that I used to visit which might be able to give you more local info. Just be cautious though as there are many divided opinions & attitudes there.
https://www.inspire.com/groups/bladder-cancer-advocacy-network/
We are all familiar with the anxiety, waiting & thinking the worst. Try to distract yourself with other activities to fill in the time - exercise can be a good way to work off frustrations, worry and anger. Perhaps listen to some music to fit your mood or lift your spirits. Very best wishes.
Tomorrow is my appointment with the urologist that is going to do my biopsy. It's just the pre appointment. Today has been an extra stressful day for me. I'm so worried about tomorrow for some reason. Maybe I'm just scared of a second opinion. This new Dr. Has all of my files from my first urologist so I hope he gives me some positive news that I haven't heard yet. Wish me luck
Good luck.I hope your appointment goes well.Best wishes Jane
Good morning
Try not to worry and be positive and once this has been done you will see the light at the end of tunnel.
Due to going in hospital and appointments so much I made the decision to talk to my grandchildren so they understood not all cancer kills you.
My grandchildren no longer get upset over something out of their control. I will be having radical surgery next and have planted the seed ready for when the surgery and changes happen.
Please keep focussed on the now and good luck today keep us updated
Lorraine
So well said about explaining to younger family Lorraine. Scorp11278, I really hope you are able to take note and put your daughter's mind at ease. Much better for her to know the score than perhaps be unnecessarily dreading far worse on top of dealing with her Mom's situation.
Best wishes with the new doctor,
Denby
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