Hi all
I know I'm going on...... ha ha
I'm still exhausted..... had the 4 b12 shots 3 weeks ago now and thought I was starting to perk up as I managed to walk the dogs a few nights ago but then yesterday I was so exhausted I couldn't lift the kettle to make a brew again.
The pain has finally settled after the TURBT it just niggles now if I hold my bladder too long but unfortunately due to the nature of my job that can't be avoided sometimes. So changing my diet has definitely helped....thanks to whomever suggested looking into that.
The GP now thinks I'm depressed with everything I've had to deal with recently. My question is "surely I'd feel depressed?"
Don't get me wrong since diagnosis and the TURBT etc I haven't been my usual self and if I talk about the cancer I get emotional and feel like I've somehow let everyone down by being unwell.... but I do not think about the cancer all the time and I definitely don't have an overall feeling of doom and gloom.
Ha.....anyways....any ideas or any suggestions from anyone who may have experienced similar truely welcome.....or maybe I need a virtual slap to sort myself out.... who knows.....
Sending love
Clare
Hi Clare. I felt so much better after my first few shots. After my initial 6 jabs, I had a further blood test which showed my blood levels had greatly improved. My GP also prescribed iron tablets which also helped me regain my energy. Said over the counter stuff is no good. Maybe something you may like to ask your GP about, but obviously get advice before taking any supplements. Best wishes.
Hi rily (again)
I only had 4 shots and they haven't tested again but I was given a high dose of folic acid to take for 4 weeks then a lower dose for 4 weeks. Havent started the lower dose yet.
Hopefully speak to GP tomorrow. Maybe I have just reached the end of my tether? Don't like the idea of antidepressants because they can make you tired too and I don't need any help with that ha ha
Thanks for your response
Sending love
Clare
Another thing you can look into with a DIY objective taste test is your zinc level. Also low magnesium, which the doctor can do a blood test for, can cause fatigue. As rily says, always get advice before starting new supplements.
Best, Denby
Hi Denby
Hope you are well.
My GP did a full blood count twice and it wasn't identified. It was identified that my lymphocytes were high which set me in a panic but I was retested yesterday and its gone down.
Maybe I need to just be patient with myself.
Thanks for your response
Sending love
Clare
Hi, fbc is unlikely to include zinc I think. Drs mostly have little clue about mineral deficiencies, which are getting common due to modern diet, medications etc. My NHS dietician friend says drs have tiny amount of training in their course, much too little to be any use.
Denby
Hi Denby
I have been asked to GP tomorrow so I will mention it. I would rather avoid antidepressants if I can as I have heard they can make you tired and I don't need any help with that
Sending love
Clare
Hi Clare
Ease up on yourself now!
You need to be tender with yourself. You have gone through so much. Anti-depressants help me no end. I have had depression for many years. They do not make me feel tired at all. However again taking them is a personal choice
Love Inanna x
Hi again inanna
Thanks for the response
Thats my big worry, I took some antidepressants for a few months last year as a form of pain relief for nerve damage to my hand and they made me very dopey. Can I ask which ones you take?
I need my mojo back now....everyone around me needs it back too, its taking a toll on the family.
I'm hoping to speak to the GP tomorrow so I'll share my concerns with them. I've been referred for counselling too but I'm not good with that sort of thing. However I'm willing to try anything now, I'm getting sooooo fed up with myself.
Sending love
Clare
Hi winkers60
Thanks for your response
I'm going to take another urine sample to GP in the morning to be tested to eliminate that but they did test my lymphocytes yesterday which are an indicator for infection and that was all clear apparently.
I think I'm going to have to give in and consider the antidepressant route.... its so bizarre though as I do not feel depressed.
Sending love
Clare
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