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Hello all. 

it's been a while, so thought I'd check in with a hello, and a little update really. 

It's not been good this past year, Covid aside - as I got hit by Radiation Cystitis really bad. Bladder is calcifying, has reduced in size to such an extent that I can only hold about 30ml now. 

Some of you may remember a while back, when I posted that I'd bitten the bullet and gone for an RC - but, this time because of Covid, there's been delay after delay, after delay. I eventually spoke to my Urologist last week, who has now referred me to University College Hospital London, and the amazing team up there (robotic surgery -get in!!).

I went for my pre-CT bloods today, and have a stoma nurse coming round next Monday to see me. 

From end of August last year, has been unbearable. The constant weeing, the pain in general, the pain in passing baked bean sized chunks of my bladder out, being housebound and just rotting away until now. 

I cannot even begin to describe the elation, knowing that I will soon be able to do all the things I used to be able to do (well, with the exception of one, but I've got my head around that now), go out for a walk longer than 10 minutes, just jump in my car with my camera and just drive somewhere, or most importantly - go outside with my wife and little 'un.

I thought at the beginning that a bag would be debilitating, hard to live with, and a crap quality of life which is one of the reasons I went down the radiotherapy route - and it's quite funny really, that now, I am having a RC so I no longer have any of the above - the debilitation, the crap quality of life, and it be hard to live with - because if the past 7-8 months have been anything to go by - this will be a doddle.

  • Hello . Nice to hear from you, but sorry to hear the RT didn't go as well as hoped and you've been suffering for months. Good to know you have your RC arranged. Spring in the air and you will soon be out and about . Hope all goes well for you. keep us posted. Best wishes.

    Best wishes to All,   rily.

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  • Hi Nick,I’m sorry you have been having a bad time.I think you will notice a huge difference in your quality of life once you have had the surgery.Although I didn’t have radiation cystitis over 30 years of chronic bladder disease had affected my life.I was always in pain,always in the loo or looking for one and when the bladder cancer was diagnosed things were unbearable.The cystectomy op is long,recovery can be patchy but to not have the bladder pain or constant bathroom trips is brilliant.I find the stoma easy,no problems adjusting to life with a bag.Wishing all the best.Love Jane 

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    FormerMember in reply to rily

    Spring is a bit optimistic, but the summer, most definitely!

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    FormerMember in reply to winkers60

    I'll be having robotic surgery, and not open, so hopefully my recovery is a bit easier

  • Fingers crossed,plus you are still young.Mine started off robotically but the tumour ended up being removed abdominally.I had quite a few scars but they have faded well now 18 mths later.

  • Hi nickfreckle

    I am so glad I decided to go down the stoma route from the beginning I knew it was best for me. I am so fond of him. He is called Basil after Fawlty Tours he saved my life.

    Please keep us posted 

    Inanna x

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    FormerMember in reply to winkers60

    I've already got my fair share of scars, a few more won't hurt! Well it probably will, but you know what I mean! 

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    FormerMember in reply to Inanna

    Yes, I will do. 

  • Best of luck nickfreckle. My husband is having an RC in June.  X 

  • Hi hope all OK with hubby xx good to hear you now have a date for his operation xx I really hope you are OK this waiting is so horrible you just want to get things done .. once he has finished the chemo all will be ready for the op .. maybe by then you will be able to visit him as restrictions should be eased a bit .. how are the other forums going hope they help xx did you manage to team up with a buddy x  take care speak soon xx love Tina xx