T3 T4 bladder cancer

Hi and a warm welcome to the group. Here you will find a wealth of information and support for you and your husband. I was T3 but so far managed to keep my bladder. Others here have had removal and I am sure will be along to share experiences. Any treatment is a slow process with lots of waiting which we never get used to. One step at a time is the best way to handle things. Early days yet for your husband, but many of us have been there. Best wishes.

Hi rily

Thank you for your quick response.  It all seems a bit complicated, so the help from a group such as this will be much appreciated.  well done on keeping your bladder!

Thanks

I didn't have chemo, but have had bladder removal. Perhaps easier in a way that it was my choice rather than being recommended. Always a daunting prospect, but life can still be good without a bladder.

It is major surgery & recovery is slow, takes many months to regain full strength & energy. Especially for men there are issues with function & self image. So as carer you will need plenty of patience - be prepared to listen if he wants to talk, but accepting if he doesn't. If he has any questions, plenty of us here to answer.

There is sometimes the option of chemo plus radiotherapy instead, you should ask about options, pros & cons of each treatment.

Hi Smudge welcome to this group I'm sure you will find some words of wisdom here ,it has helped me a lot here had plenty of help from others .all the best harry