sorry but panicking again.....

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Am I panicking that they think this has spread with the possible T4aM2Mx?

I dont want my mum to die.

This was her discharge notes from the hospital:

  • I'm sorry you are so worried but I think you need to wait until her case is reviewed at the MDT (Multi Disciplinary Team Meeting) when the medical team will have the results back from the histology investigation as well as suggested treatment plan for her. These discharge notes are setting out only what the surgeon saw and did and what happens next - a meeting to discuss her case and those of other patients. They will then give her a clear statement

    None of us here is medically qualified and we mustn't  make statements about your mother's illness. Maybe her GP could help?

    It is nerve wracking having to wait for the diagnosis but we can all empathise with you, having faced it ourselves both for ourselves and others. 

    None of us wants to think about our mother being seriously ill. I had to face this many years ago and remember it well. Perhaps you would benefit from talking to someone about how you are feeling. You can ring the Macmillan help line (details on this site) or if there is a Maggie's centre near you or a MacMillan place where you can walk in and talk to people who can help you. Or there are Samaritans as well.

    I hope you all find out quickly and that she can start treatment soon

    All the best,

    Latestart

  • Hi,

    From personal experience I can recommend a “Maggies” centre…they have helped me so much.

    Nigel xx