Husband has a recent diagnosis

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Hello. This is my first post here. Following a month of blood in urine, my husband has had tests (blood tests,CT scan and cystoscopy a couple of days ago). He was told a couple of days ago, that the cystoscopy has shown a solid 3 cm lesion arising from behind the intra ureteric bar extending into the bladder, plus multiple small papillary lesions on left lateral wall, with the appearance of bladder TCC.

He has to have the larger tumour removed (in the next 10 days) and will have a CT scan early next week to check for spread.

This has of course come as a shock (as I appreciate most will feel in this situation). My husband turned 60 a few weeks ago. He was also diagnosed with young onset Alzheimer’s last October. 


We cannot have the same in-depth conversations that we once had. I am just trying to get my head around what to expect over the coming weeks (I know that this is probably impossible to say). 

I would appreciate any shared experiences from similar situations please. I have to take the lead for us but I am not entirely sure (apart from Google), what to expect.

Thank you x

  • Hi  . The flexible cystoscopy is a visual inspection and can't really tell if gone in to the wall or just sitting on the surface. It is only when the TURBT procedure is done and biopsies taken will they have a proper diagnosis. It is unlikely you will find anything out at the CT scan. They just take the images which are then sent off for analysis. The scan also adds to the jigsaw in order to plan going forward. Best wishes.

    Best wishes to All,   rily.

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  • Thank you very much for that detail  

    I am just in the waiting room now. Husband has pre op apt for Thursday, so I suppose he may have op a few days after that.

    Thank you again. You all know what an anxious time this is and it is helpful to chat on here. 

    thank you x

  • Hi,The scan should give you answers as to how far into the bladder the tumour has gone.As rily has said it’s difficult to tell from cystoscopy.They normally try to get you in for an op within a few weeks of the pre op so you may have a bit of waiting.It is not uncommon to have a second TURBT a few weeks after the first.If the tumour is large they remove more of it at the second TURBT and do biopsies too and combined with scan results a treatment plan will be decided.Love Jane x

    • Thank you very much winkers60. He is in quite a bit of pain and burning when urinating and so much blood. I wonder if I should maybe message the GP or if it is just to be expected? Thank you Pray tone1 x
  • It’s always worth checking that there is no urine infection present.Burning can sometimes indicate infection so it might be an idea to get a urine sample to the gp’s to get tested.I’m sorry to hear your husband is in pain how miserable for him.Is he drinking enough ? love Jane x

  • Thank you again. He is thankfully drinking quite a lot of water and weak orange cordial.

    I will take a sample into the doctors just incase.

    Thank you x

  • It’s good that your husband is drinking.Lemon barley water seems to be popular with this group.Prior to cancer I found Pear juice soothing when the bladder was painful.Jane x

  • Thank you. I am heading to the shop soon. I will pick up some of the Barley Water. 
    thanks again Relaxed️ x

  • Hello. Thank you all for your support previously.

    My husband had his TURBT today. Unfortunately, they wouldn’t let me in with him. As he has Alzheimer’s (albeit  quite early stages), he cannot recall what he was told. We will have to wait for our follow up appointment. 
    This is a picture that the consultant drew him to show him what was happening. 
    I wondered if I could please ask if this means anything to any of you (hope this is not inappropriate to ask). 
    thank you x

  • Hi  . Good to know your husband has got through his procedure ok. We are not qualified to offer an opinion on the drawing as we may come to the wrong conclusion. Once the biopsy results are in, you will have a much clearer idea of a diagnosis and the way forward. There may be a follow up TURBT which is standard, along with some scans to give a more accurate diagnosis. In the meantime, try and make sure he is drinking lots of water to keep things flushed out. Best wishes.

    Best wishes to All,   rily.

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