Hello, I've just discovered this Forum and am happy to be here. I was diagnosed with anal cancer 3 years ago and have been successfully treated. I don't have a colostomy but somehow I wish I did. I am no longer able to go for walks as every time I walk (even round Tesco) I have to go to the toilet every few minutes. I can ride a bike and ride my horse and this doesn't happen, I have no idea why. I dread going shopping, and have just retired to the coast but I can't go to the beach in case I need the loo. My favourite summer food is salad which I'm not allowed to eat, most fruits are banned too and many vegetables. As a retired home economics teacher you can guess I love my food and am feeling very depressed as 3 years on life is miserable. Has anyone any helpful info please?
Hi and welcome to the group. It’s good to hear you’ve been successfully treated, that’s reassuring for everyone to read including me ( I’m 22 months post treatment). Your ongoing issues sound very debilitating. Just so we can advise further, what types of food/ drink are you currently having? Are you actually having diarrhoea or is it more a leakage issue? Have you discussed this issue at all at your appointments with your treating team? Bev.
Hi ,
When I was speaking to my oncologist a couple of weeks ago, a very competent Dr & an all round lovely man, we discussed the issue of late referrals by GP’s & we also spoke about my volunteering on this forum as I’d mentioned the amount of people that were joining here that had been misdiagnosed for a length of time & I also discussed some of the long term side effects of the treatment specifically bowel disturbances as this crops up a lot on here & I wanted to hear his opinion on these issues. Regarding late referrals he said to insist on a rectal examination before your GP dismisses your worries as haemorrhoids etc. Then he went on to chronic bowel issues following treatment & he said not many people are made aware that even years out of treatment if you’re finding, as you’ve described, that bowel issues are having a major impact on your life then a colostomy should still be an option. I know this isn’t a surgery that should be decided upon lightly but if it would mean you being able to do the things you love then would it be a consideration for you?
Nicola
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