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Oh, that is awful for you - I am so sorry to hear this, and on top of your own treatment too. I can only suggest that you get as much support around you as you can. Some cancer centres have a Maggies centre, and I know the Macmillan people are extremely helpful too, so please don't try and bear all this on your own.

If you are also struggling physically with your own treatment then have a talk with the radiotherapy team; they have come across most side effects and issues that arise from the treatment so definitely have a talk to them and get some practical help so that your are physically more comfortable too.

Let us know how it goes for you, and take care.

Oh TAC25 im so sorry to hear this, I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I can only echo what Mrs Vanilla has said about reaching out to your local cancer charity the one attached to my hospital was called the big c and they were very supportive. Don't be sorry, its what the forum is for. Sending hugs. Xx

I’m so sorry to hear this . What a devastating time for you . I hope you get the help and support you both need . If you’ve a Maggies near , they are very supportive . 
Sending you a huge hug .

Sharon x

I am so sorry Tac25. How devastating to hear such sad news. You are going through so much both physically and emotionally. I really hope that you are able to access support and it looks like the others on the forum have made good suggestions. 
Everything must feel so overwhelming right now and never say sorry for letting it out. We are all here for you. 
A very big virtual hug to you. Xx

So sorry to hear this... unbelievable the timing with you both suffering so much. Sending my best wishes to you and your family. I wish I had better words. 

Jenna xx

Hello TAC25

This is just so sad.  My heart really goes out to you, coping with your sister's illness and with what is going on in your life too and all the time protecting her.

I agree with the others, you could do with major support in the coming months.  When I rang Maggies when I was first diagnosed they booked me in for an appointment the same day.  However, I am well aware that you are coming up to the sharp end of treatment yourself and if you are anything like me, I didn't even walk to the corner shop, when I arrived home after my radiotherapy session I was back in bed trying to get comfortable.  But Maggies (or most cancer charities) do phone sessions and you really need that support right now.

Please don't ever apologise for anything you post on here; everyone here feels so much for you.  I wish I could offer more in the way of comfort.  Please post at any time at all, there is nearly always someone around.

Another big hug from me.

Irene xx

Oh my goodness TAC25 , I’m so sorry to hear this news, I can only imagine how you’re feeling. As many of you know on here my eldest daughter has a learning disability & the thought of her going through anything like you’re experiencing with your darling sister is unimaginable. Going through treatment yourself will bring you to a pretty low ebb, physically & emotionally but once you’re through this & begun your recovery then you’ll be able to be there again for your sister when it really matters. I’m sure she knows how much you love & care for her & although I don’t know her level of understanding of what you’re going through right now but I’m sure she knows you’ll always be by her side.

My heart truly breaks for you, please don’t ever feel the need to apologise for posting here, we’re here to support you however we can. 

Nicola 

Hello TAC25

I replied to this hours ago and have no idea where it went.  But to reiterate the thoughts of all of us on here, I an so sorry that you are going through this - you and your own personal issues (which alone bring most of us to the brink) as well as this awful news about your sister.  And the fact that you are having to put a brave face on whilst supporting her takes my breath away.  I do hope you get some support (probably telephone, given where you are in your treatment) and please, don't ever apologise for telling us, your cancer buddies, how hard you are finding it.  I know I would be at breaking point too.

Huge hug

Irene xx