Wishing I had found this page before. Hubby has Prostate removed in March and lets just say some of what was said by idiotic me at the time did nothing whatsoever to help him. I'm still gutted I let him down (I told him I missed sex). I meant it in a different way but what other way could he have read it eh. Feeling a fool. Still not used to it either..sucks sometimes but happy to have him with me
Hi @wifey007, u probably don't want a reply but - don't u think us women are good at feeling guilty about everything?!
It might be worth ringing the helpline or posting under "ask an expert" in case anyone has any suggestions to help you and your husband?
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Thanks Buttercup,
Replies always welcome. Yes I feel like a fool and can't believe I let him down. He says don't worry about it but can't undo it and it kills me sometimes. Other times I'm like, well I'm entitled to miss it
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