We found out a few days ago that our wonderful 84 yr old mum has anaplastic thyroid cancer. We’ve been told it’s rare, aggressive and untreatable. They’ve also found masses on her lungs. Her decline is devastatingly rapid. She’s currently in hospital having been blue lighted in following a coughing spasm.
As it’s all so quick we’ve not had time to understand what’s happening, missed all the normal referral processes etc. We are working through trying to get her back home. The conversation seems to be about weeks as opposed to months.
mum is amazing. Talking about things openly, smiling despite the news but she’s getting very confused (having been so switched on)
I feel lost, scared and desperately sad and so shocked. It feels like I’m living in a parallel universe. I’m trying to support my mum and my family but it’s so tough
Hello Helly B
I am Brian one of the Community Champions here at Macmillan. I have just noticed your post has gone unanswered and by me replying it will be "bumped up" to the top of the group. I hope other Community members see it and you get some helpful replies.
Don't forget there's our support line for all the family on 0808 808 00 00 (8am to 8pm 7 days a week) where you can get some support to help you through the current situation.
If I can do anything for you please don't hesitate to contact me.
Best wishes - Brian.
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