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Hi all.

Im here because my fiance has terminal lung & kidney cancer and the last few days he has slept only getting up to go to the loo. He's not eating very well at all and I find him the last few weeks being very down, lethargic, difficult to wake and he's confused & disorientated. I'm going to call the district nurse first thing but i feel so helpless right now. Trying to hold it together for him and our son who is autistic. What can I do for him? I'm just list.

Many thanks..

  • Hi  

    I haven't been in your position, as I was the one with cancer, but I noticed that your post hadn't had any replies yet. Responding to you will 'bump' it back to the top of the discussion list again.

    I hope the district nurse was helpful.

    ((hugs))

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  • Hi, I can’t imagine what you are going through right now. I’m trying to support my Dad with cancer. All I can say is you are amazing and I want to send you a massive hug. I’m so sorry you and your family are going through this xxx

  • I am so sorry to hear your sad news.

    My partner has incurable pancreatic cancer and he gets tired also and his appetite has wained. This is what happens when people have cancer.  They lose weight and energy and don't feel like eating.  I know this is no consolation to you but this forum should be of some help to you.

    x