I am quite worried about the implications of Boris Johnson ending all Covid restrictions at the end of this month. Since mask wearing has become “voluntary” we have noticed on the few occasions we have been out shopping that fewer and fewer people are bothering to wear a mask and we have also experienced some “scathing” looks and comments because we continue to wear our masks. I almost feel like wearing a sign saying “ My husband has cancer we are trying to protect him!!!”.
And now people will no longer have to isolate if they test positive I feel even more like hiding indoors is the only way to remain safe. I know we have to move forward but feel it’s too much too soon (even experts are saying it’s probably too soon to end isolation for those who test positive) and although you would hope people will act with care and sensitivity towards those for whom this is still a huge threat it is likely that a significant proportion of people won’t even think about , let alone care about, those who are still very vulnerable.
Am I alone in my worries or do others living with or caring for someone with cancer also feel scared?
I am really sorry to read your post, it must be a endless worry as restrictions are lifted. I am considered vulnerable due to my age and have had vaccinations but the worry is still there! I wear an FFP2 mask when out as it does filter about 90% of what you breathe in. In that way I don’t rely on others to keep me safe! I bought them online and found ones that are washable and tested by Which.
It may be worth seeking advice from your medical team, there are treatments if you are clinically vulnerable and they would be able to advise.
Wishing you and your husband all the best!
Jac
We're exactly the same. My Dad's just been given a terminal prognosis - weeks, maybe months they just don't know. I'm more of the opinion of screw it, let's go and do things, but my Mum's biggest worry is that if she caught it or one of us did, then my Dad caught it and it ended things sooner or if he didn't catch it but one of us did and we couldn't be there for him at the end if he ends up in the Hospice.
Try and visit places which are predominantly outdoors - lots of nice gardens on National Trust properties which they may have scooter rental etc if he's unable to walk. If you're worried about a particular place being very busy, Google it first and on the Google My Business listing, quite a few places will show you roughly how busy it currently is.
Hi James
Thank you for your reply and the information in it.
We have had a really good talk about things and decided to do as much as we can now while my husband is still relatively okay. We decided that it’s not “living” with cancer to just sit at home waiting for the inevitable especially as he is often fairly well apart from severe fatigue. So we have booked a few short breaks away (fitting in with his treatment and weekly blood tests) we are staying within an hours drive of our hospital in case he needs to be seen urgently and we have chosen self catering lodges etc so we are still not mixing too much with other people but are able to get out for a walk or just sit and enjoy some nice scenery.
Grasan
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