Hi, 3 weeks ago my Dad was diagnosed with skin cancer that metastasized in the brain. He is currently at home for palliative care. He is still able to wash and dress himself but cant be left on his own as he is confused.
I have 1 sister and 1 brother. My dad lives with my stepmum. Shes been around for over 20 years.
Yesterday tempers were flaring. My sister is a nurse and believes my stepmum is selfish and lazy and cant be bothered to look after Dad. My stepmum is doing her best but struggling, she isnt really very well herself and is waiting for an operation.
The biggest problem is dad wont go to bed at night. He has been up all night drinking. I dont think my sister believes how bad he is at night. My stepmum isnt getting much sleep. She phoned me at 5am for help. I've got 2 kids so my brother went round but dad is also getting aggressive. My sister has gone round as well.
I dont know what to do. I cant stay over every night because of my kids and I'm still working.
Help
