Hi I don’t really know what to do or how to say , my mum got diagnosed with ovarian cancer yesterday , I havnt stopped crying but trying so hard to hold it together infront of her I don’t know what to do with myself , I think we will get an appointment with the gynaecologist/specialist next week to find out the next steps , I’m so sorry for everyone going thru the same thing or similar x
Hi and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community although sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis in the family can be very challenging in so many levels but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer treatment journey will help you navigate this challenging time.
The Community is organised into support groups so can I recommend you join our supportive Ovarian cancer group as this will be a good place to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.
To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
When it comes to practical support talking with others caring for family and friends will help a lot so do also check out our Family and friends group as you will connect with others walking the same journey supporting family and friends through their cancer treatments.
It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here to see what is available and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers can be found on our Online Information and Support Section.
All the very best
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