Hi all. This is my first post. My Dad was diagnosed with a 3 cm tumour at the gastric oesophageal junction. He has had 4 cycles of chemo and will have a scan tomorrow to determine the next course,an op or more chemo.
My issue is that my mum has bipolar,dad is her primary carer. I am now registered as both their carers. I work full time and have been given time off to look after Dad,but I will have to go back eventually. Does anyone have any ideas of support for them at home ie. meal prep,getting mum out of bed as she struggles to get herself going and frequently stays in bed or goes back to bed.
The local borough council can only offer help in an emergency. My parents can afford to pay. Any ideas? Many thanks.
Hi SJP46 and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community although sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your dad’s diagnosis and your ongoing challenges.
It’s helpful to talk with others who are walking the same type of cancer treatment journey as this will help you navigate this challenging time.
The Community is organised into support groups and I see you have joined our supportive Gullet (oesophagus) cancerrain tumour group as this will be a good place to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.
To go to the group just click on the link above then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones). You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
With regards to the practical support challenges talking with others caring for family and friends will help a lot so do check out our Family and friends and Carers only groups as you will connect with others walking the same journey supporting family and friends through their cancer journey.
It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here to see what is available and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers can be found on our Online Information and Support Section.
All the very best
