my brain cancer is incurable. I am talking with a councillor but nothing helps and I have a need to talk to ppl about preparing for death and how do you do it?
I feel lost going into the unknown. I would like for it to be a course where this is talked about. How about you, do you; do you have the need to comprehend the enormity of what awaits...
Do you have someone who is able to talk with you about death?
Hi Minmax, love your attitude and your post, I'm leaving my body to medical sciences too for future doctors to practice on, then later it's a cardboard box with an oak tree planted on top in the middle of the woods, I did want to be an organ donor but cancer ruled that out.
Eddie
eddiel I think it is commendable that you are giving your body up for medical research,I looked into this, but it was my understanding that they cremate the body up to 3 years after their research is finished. I might be wrong but I didn’t think the family got the body back ?
Hi Chelle, I have talked to the university and she told me after 4 months they usually cremate your remains often with other bodies, 3 or 4, your family are allowed to collect the ashes though usually they are scattered or buried in the Uni gardens with a mark oy respect from the students. I had arranged my "green" years earlier and asked if my remains could be buried after and she told me if the funeral company can collect at a specific time, they will be given part of me to bury
Hi you dont get the body back , Best to read the leaflets they send you . but you can get ashes back and if not they have a service for all the people who donated their body. Every year . Its not something I am concerned about as its not going to make any difference to me where I end up
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