Mrs Tvman happy?

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Well, I haven't posted here for a while because as some will remember Mrs Tvman was diagnosed with rectal cancer. After 5 weeks of radiotherapy and chemotherapy and after a further 2 week wait until the results I'm delighted to say that her tumour and lymph nodes have disappeared completely,. Also no sign of cancer in the wall of the rectum, so NED SmileyThumbsup. She will be having regular 3 week chemo for while which she sees the result as a hollow victory. I'm telling her that some people on the site would give their eye teeth for such a result. I think she's gradually coming round to that state of mind. 

As for me I've been in the Lagan Valley hospital because of extreme jerking and inability to stand as my legs were buckling below me. I went in on Friday 6th October and got out on Monday 16th October. During that time my mood was so low and I feared I would die in there. Happily I was allowed out by the liver specialist. I'm jaundiced with slightly yellow skin and the whites of my eyes are definitely yellow. The focus now is to get my liver working properly and to start with a withdrawal of a drug that I am taking to lower the ferritin (iron) in my body due to my haemochromatosis (known loosely as the Celtic curse) that is caused by a mutated gene - H63D - that both my parents must have had but were unaware of. This mutation causes levels of iron to be deposited in major organs such as the heart and the liver. It's a complicated picture as you may well understand.

Take care everyone

Tvman xx

  • Hi Tvman, Good to see you post. Once Mrs Tvman finishes her extended chemo, I'm sure being NED will properly sink in!

    It definitely hasn't been gardening weather! It is meant to be the start of Summer, so what happened to Spring!! It's been so wet and windy! Don't overdo it in your huge garden Tvman!

    Love Annette x

    Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Gift!!!
  • So nice to see you post dear Tvman...yes it's time for you to get busy in the garden. Rain?? What's that?? We haven't had rain for about 3 months...so much watering to do. But now cooler about 20 degrees every day and 6 at night. Finally, can relax a bit lol. Had a lot of tomatoes this year.  Sending a big hug to you and Mrs Tvman.

  • Hi Moi, great to hear from you but so sorry to hear that about Ray. I'm in the same boat with you as I have turned into Mrs Tvman's carer. I remember putting up a post when I said that one of the worst things that can happen to a cancer sufferer is that their carer gets ill and how true that is!

    Take care Moi xx

    Love life and family.
  • Hi everyone, thanks to all for your lovely caring posts. It's so good to see your familiar names pop up and that lets me know you haven't forgotten about me ThumbsupHeart

    Take care everyone xx

    Love life and family.
  • Tvman you'll not be forgotten here as you have made so many wellcome as new members. Definitely made me feel very welcome.  Have a good day xx

    Moi

  • Hi Tvman, Yes you are right, the worst thing is when your carer is also diagnosed by cancer but somehow we find the strength to help them and keep going.

    Love Annette x

    Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Gift!!!
  • Hi tvman 

    You could never be forgotten, when I was first diagnosed over 2 years ago now I was very frightened scared and emotional and you was one of the first people to offer support, with kind gentle words and fit that I am grateful.

    Have a good weekend and tell Mrs tvman well done and keep up the fight I hope all goes well for her, as for you I know you will keep strong and get through your ailments 

    Sending a big hug for both of you 

    Donna

  • TVman who's TVman??????, good news for the Mrs, happy happy happy.

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  • Hi Hamhat, sounds like tvman was  a great help to you on your diagnosis,  I'm in a similar position to yourself  but with breast cancer ( treatable but not curable) this is my 3rd diagnosis but coped before because it wasn't secondary and I knew there was an end in sight to treatment,  this time I'm not coping well at all,  constantly feeling anxious,  fearful and just don't know how to shake myself into feeling positive , my breast care nurses aren't helpful at all,  I have asked macmillan for some counselling which I'm having next week,  do you have any other advice xx

  • Hey Ulls, I can tell you're getting on in years JoyJoy You might remember the brilliant gardener. Tvman and the brilliant gardener, he's one and the same. Any more help needed? JoyJoy

    Love life and family.