My OH went back to work on Mon, a week later than planned but we certainly needed that extra week.
My sister was here all day yesterday, we had a jaunt out & I persuaded her to go home & let me have an hour on my own.
I decided to try propelling myself in the light weight wheelchair because my legs had completely given up.
Mission accomplished, I launched myself out of the chair, whacked my head & elbow, right leg buckled underneath me & chair on top.
Couldn’t get up but got a bit more comfortable & that’s where my OH found me. I had my phone & knew he’d be home very soon so 20 mins later, but in floods of tears & very, very shocked. Morphine & an early night helped, but still feel a bit shocked, battered & bruised. I’ve discovered that part of being independent is knowing your limitations.
What was I thinking of???? Luckily OH was very understanding. Have had a really quiet day with our youngest son who’s been working from here all day 
xxx
Hi Annette anndanv
I couldn't believe what I was reading! What a friend, was she on drink or drugs? I'd guess she is consigned to the history of friends that were.
I've had that message too because of some trigger words and in some of those occasions, I hadn't a clue why the message had appeared. I look at it as if just one person is needing help and receives help, then job done.
The first time it happened to me I was surprised and upset, what was it that I said? My worst fear was that I had upset someone with what I had said. I contacted the team and I was reassured that I hadn't upset anyone with my message. I have had the same worrying message a few times since, but now I just deal with it to get it removed and carry on.
It's a shock Annette, I hope you don't get it ever again. You are the last person I would expect to offend anyone, I know you too well 
Tvman xx
