Advise please

FormerMember
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Thank u letting me join group , at my last appointment My consultant looked me in my eyes and said you know I cannot cure this I replied control it . She said that's my aim she ask me if I had any questions I said no .. the advice I'm asking 4 is what should i ask i dont know . how long do i have ?? Do i really want 2 know ... how will i feel??? I dont know ... I know I'm scared 2 ask ..... I'm sorry if my message is not clear but i just can not put anything together at the moment I'm sorry 

Kym x

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Denisa

    I'm so sorry 2 hear about your results  sending u a big hug 

    How can they get it so wrong 

    I really dont know what 2 say 2 u 

    I'm not very good at writing putting sentences together but if u want 2 chat I will try my best .

    Kym xx

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi cole45 

    Thank u n congratulations best wishes on your very near wedding  xxx 

    I have secondary breast cancer I had breast cancer 15 years ago had chemo then a mastectomy  n a reconstruction then radiotherapy  3months in2 my recovery my husband was diagnosed with unknown primary  n passed away 4months later  .last September a lump came up on my shoulder 1st thing I thought was oh no cancer then I disappeared I told myself stop thinking everything is cancer I had got rid of it end off .. xmas it came back I put it down to doing a lot of overtime n pulled a muscle by February shoulder started 2 bruise  n I couldn't manage delivery at work ( I work in retail)  I had 2 go gp get a light duty note until it got better (advice from manager ) went gp she sent me to A&E they sent me back to breast clinic..test were done got my results 17th may had 1st chemo June saw consultant she said if not any change after next chemo we will stop it n move on to radiotherapy  but not sure if it will work as u have had it in same area b4 .go back 2 c her next week the 18th 2 find out what they r going to do .I have also lost movement of my left arm been told the cancer has caused nerve n muscle damage 

    Kym

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Denisa

    Hope u got some sleep last nite x

    I just popped back on to see if u were ok 

    Kym

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Denisa

    Hope u got some sleep last nite x

    I just popped back on to see if u were ok 

    Kym