DNR and official complaints

FormerMember
FormerMember
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Hi

After much thought I have decided to put in an official complaint, As i previously stated I was unconscious for most of the months i was in hospital and for the few weeks i was conscious out of my mind on drugs.

My wife and adult children did not sign anything.

It maybe that I was very close to death and that most people would not survive the treatment to resuscitate me but and it is a big but that is my decision.

I fully accept that during an operation things may go wrong and I die but for Doctors to add that to my file for the future guidance of other Doctors weeks or months later without discussing it with me is not on.

Why on discharge did no one sit down with me and say we did procedure A and do not think you would survive this again.

No very unhappy 

Hence the official complaint. Which by the way was sent on 19/6 and receipt acknowledged but to date no official reply.Beyond the statuary 25 days for a reply.

I would be grateful to hear from any one else who has submitted an official complaint and also from anyone with experience of DNR notices

  • Hi Titus, That standard letter after this length of time is just an insult to palm you off for another while. I definitely think you should move it up a gear and send a registered letter with a copy to the Hospital Admin asking why they have not yet addressed any of your concerns and letting them know you will also be contacting your MP because you expected them to take your complaint more seriously!

    Or contact the Ombudsman as I think Gragon suggested! It's shocking!

    Love Annette x

    Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Gift!!!
  • Hi ,

    I was just wondering how you are and how you are getting on with your complaint.  We haven't heard from you in a while.  I hope that things are going as well as they can do.

    All the best,

    Gragon

  • Hi Gragon, I've been wondering about Titus also! I've noticed he hasn't posted in two months!

    If anyone knows how he is getting on, or Titus if you read this, please drop a line!

    Love Annette x

    Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Gift!!!