Feel like changing my look/clothes to feel better - anyone else?

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Hi everyone,

Does everyone feel they have to change themselves clothes etc to feel better or feel they look better !??

I have felt I have had to as I feel I am different and need to move past the old me and think if I change myself in clothes this will help me accept me or this now 

I have been scared to go out  then go out for long times in case I have an accident and need to go to the bathroom and if I leak or spill over me or clothes it’s a lot!!

  • I have osteoporosis possibly 10 years having had this many years I had walking issues stairs so hard but weirdly since the tumour was removed I don’t have this although joint pains nothing like when I had the tumour and being told this has been there 15-20 years answers many questions of poor posture mobility too 

    I used to teach yoga t’ai chi and Pilates when I was younger so have been flexible and even though skinny in some way fit just slackened off over the last 10 years of me doing very little 

    I am looking to get back into this but working with some cancer groups to help others like or similar to me and my situation to maybe help me too I am thinking this may be another thing I could consider doing I am still needing to heal first 

    my mind’s in overdrive body lagging behind at the moment 

    I am very much into vitamins and stopped coffee but have Spacegoods mushroom coffee and I really think this has helped me (worth a look!) 

    I do some small amounts of t’ai chi and that’s helping me mentally and lessening some of the body stresses and pains I think sticking at this will eventually make me more comfortable and stronger

    i suppose the recovery has to happen first but I thought I would be at a better place by now but I am not and I’m getting to understand this and my healing process 

    thank you for sharing I feel I’m doing ok do again thank you for that too 

    I suppose we have to accept us and us and enjoy things as little as they are and I’m am learning. That too