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Glioblastoma

My partner Martin was diagnosed with this horrible desease on june 19th 2008. I am so scared of this monster of a disease, why does it happen, where does it come from? Cant we find a cure? please God find one soon. There are htousands of new cases every year why cant we save these peoples lifes from this horrible disease.
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    Good Morning All,

    I'm sorry I have a question about treatment as my mum and her husband are rather confused. At the moment she is just starting her second week of combined RT and temodal. Originally we were told it would be 5 days per week for 6 weeks. But actually the temodal is 7 days per week and the RT is only 4 days per week. This is because she started last week on a Tuesday. This week she has Friday off because it's Good Friday , the following week she has Easter Monday off. So my first question is, does this sound normal? Or is she being short-changed because of the Easter break?

    Then she has 4 weeks off - is this completely off? No RT or temodal?

    Then when she starts on the 6 months, what is the norm here regarding number of RT sessions and temodal doses?

    SallyE

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    Morning Sally

    The treatment is 30 days for r/t, usually given 5 days a week but when Martin got his there was once a holiday also twice there were days where the r/t machine was being serviced, but the days missed will be made up at the end of the treatment, if that makes sense.

    Emma, ((((((((big hugs)))))))) xxxx

    Carrie, (((((((bighugs)))))))) xxx

    Thinking of you both and all my other lovely friends.

    love Gayle xxxxx
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    So sorry ladies just got back from threeday break at Haven.

    Emma......words fail me Im so shocked and devastated for you and the girls.Matthew was such a fantastic person s are you for coping in such extreme circumstances.He really was a fighter and an inspiration to us all.
    Hope you are coping at this terrible time wish I could come over and give you all a big hug
    Sending you all the love and strength for the future xxx

    Carrie-I am so so sorry that your beloved B lost his fight.You have been truely amazing through these past months I have read your posts in admiration for your inner strength and drive to get B home....you did it and I thank you for being so supportive to the rest of us struggling with the devastation of this bloody illness.

    Lisa-Im sorry to hear your father passed but glad to era that you were all there and it was a peaceful passing please post when you need to chat we are all here.

    Jay-thinking of you all hope you are okxxxx

    To everyone else reading this post I send you all the love strength and hope for the future,there are many new members that I dot know but welcome to you all sorry you find this low mood but three of our wonderful members have recently lost their fabulous husbands so its a very sad time for us all.Im finding posting really difficult as Im feeling so sad for all the loss of wonderful life.
    Debbie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    To everyom

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    Morning everyone

    Emma so good to hear from you, you really are a trouper finding time to keep us up to date. I wept when I read your post, Matthew loved you right to the end and these beautiful words he spoke to you will be with you forever. big hugs to you and the girls xx

    Carrie good to hear from you too, funny how life goes on even when a bit of us has died inside. Stay strong my friend. Love to you and the boys xx

    Sallye, your Mum will get 30 days RT regardless of the holidays, you should have been given a schedule so count the days, if you didn't get one ask Shanne and she'll organise it for you, 30 days RT & 42 days Temodal. Then 4 full weeks with nothing before starting the 5days on & 23days off. They will probably double the dosage of the Temadol for the 1st round and if your Mum's ok with they will increase it again. Rob was really ill when they increased it so he was taken off and no other treatment given. If you are unsure about anything ask. We were like you at first and didn't quite take it all in but when we finally did ask they told us everything we needed to know and some!! Wish your Mum good luck from us, she is in good hands with Shanne around. xx

    Debbie not spoken to you before as I am fairly new to the site (only 3weeks)but have made lots of new friends & lost a few this past week. Hope your Dad is doing ok and that you are coping with this terrible illness. It must be a huge relief for your parents to know that you are there for them, I don't know what I would have done without my 2 sons. Hope we speak again, xxx

    Gayle hope Martin feels better soon, as if he doesn't have enough to cope with, you sometimes think someone's having a laugh at their expense the amount of things that get thrown at them. At least he has you and Martine to look after him. Stay strong, xxx

    Lesley, Lisa, Rona, Jay and everyone else, thinking of you all.

    Rob's still good thank God, but don't want to say too much as like tempting fate. Took him out to Homebase today to buy some rubber gloves?? no nothing kinky, he wants to clean out our pond, we'll see, I'll probably do the cleaning and he'll supervise but again he is showing an interest which can only be good.

    Love to all of you,

    Eileen xxx

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    Hi everyone,

    Emma - lots of love ang hugs to you and your girls, thank you for texting me yesterday..had thought about both you and Carrie all weekend. Even managed to burst in to tears at work..not quite sure what everyone else thought but couldn't give a stuff. You are both amazing and still so supportive and concerned about us all on here - you don't get more special than that xxxx

    Lesley - Glad dad liked the canvas and cake... did you have a few ribena's too? We have decided to take dad for his 60th to the Brig O Doon in Ayr..he always loved that place and its where we as a family have had so many good times. Still dont know what to get him Mum has told the three of us not to buy as there is nothing he really takes comfort from materialistically other than pictures, LP's and cigars (and given that he was just in hospital with a chest infection - we may pass on that one for now) so i have less than a week to get back my blue peter badge and make him something! xxx

    Hey LORS - Lovely to hear from you lady, hope you are as well as possible and getting little minutes of peace here and there. You are soo important to your mum and dad, and manage to cope with work on top too - amazing! xx

    Hey Diane - got your facebook msg thanks :) Hope you are doing ok..always thinking of you xx
    Gayle- how is martin now? has the chest infection improved? xxx
    Well Scottish ladies (or anyone else willing to travel to glasvegas) - its the Glasgow Ladies 10k Again in May, I know how difficult it is to get away for the whole day for so many of you...but i have already got a contingent of friends (who i have bribed with cake) to take part and raise money for macmillan. Its May 10th so if any of you ladies are up for it (run, walk, hop, skip) let me know :) xxxx

    Hello and lots of love to everyone else xxxxxxx
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    I would just like to pass on my deepest sympthy to Emma at this time, my thoughts are with you.
    My sister started her second cycle of PCV chemotheraphy, her doctor was very pleased that she has been able to tolerate this new treatment, so after her 3rd cycle in May she will have a scan to valuate how the treatment has been working. I.m just wondering has any of you dear carers have any experience of how successful PCV is?
    I would also like to pass on to ddagent maybe some encouragement, my sister had fallen down my stairs and we all thought that maybe this was the tumour coming back, due to her disorientation, however after a few weeks in our local hospice it turned out to be swelling after the radiotherapy treatment, she improved greatly after steriods, I do hope this is the case for your dear dad. Passing on my best wishes to you all xxxx
















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    Hi folks

    Emma and Carrie still thinking about you lots at this time, sending lots of hugs both your ways.

    Gayle - Thanks for your message about Mum, it is hard but its so good that I have you guys to keep me going, hope your all doing ok thru the West, weather not that great eh, I am off Fri-Mon for Easter and hoping for a little sun as its amazing how it can lift your mood a little, hope Martin and Martine and of course your lovely self are ok, will keep in touch with you either thru thread or facebook and one day I still hope to give you a call ...... take care xx

    Lesley - Hope your Dad had a lovely day yesterday, and he liked all his cake, really hope he gets out of the Western soon and back home beside your Mum if she is able, I finish work tomorrow until next Tuesday and it will be so good to have a break, hope Amber got lots of new toys for her birthday, my friend has a little girl who is 2 and we are watching her at end of the month to let them go to a wedding oh dear between Aimee and Mum that night I will be shattered he he!!, chat to you soon xx

    Becca - Lovely to hear from you, sounds lovely what your doing for your dad's 60th, it is hard knowing what to get them I was the same with Mum she was 57 in January, it was mainly chocolates and a teddy saying love you loads I just could not think gone are the days when she wore nice clothes and perfume etc as I could have just went to Next or Debenams, I am actually doing the 5k race thru in Fife on Sunday 21 June, day after Scott's birthday so I hope I don't have a sore head doing it, no I won't as its for such a good cause, this will be my 4th year doing it last year we raised £1600 and I actually spoke to race for life and asked if I could give it to the Western for BT research and race for life were fine with that so my cousin and I went to the hospital and presented them with the cheque then had a pub lunch at the pub next door to the Western, will think of you on Sunday 10 May when you do yours, so hope your lovely Dad is doing ok, will keep in touch take care Becca xx

    Debbie hope you had a lovely break at Haven.

    Eileen - So good to hear Rob is doing ojk.

    Diane - Hows things thinking about you lots the now as know it must be very difficult because its my Mum and my Dad is the full time carer I don't feel it so bad but I know what your doing thru as somedays I do see my Dad struggle.

    Susan - Hope you and Paul are ok.

    Well folks Mum, Dad and Scott all watching the footie, and I am just going to sit with them and read my mag, Mum sleeping alot now Dad said she slept all afternoon but probably as it gets to 10pm tonite I will be yawning my head off and she won't be wanting to go to bed, we were thinking about changing our car to a Berlingo or something so that Mum can get in it by being in her wheelchair but I don't really know if she able enough for this as she just so tired most of the day but does revive a little at nite, Scott says thats because she has her daughter and son-in-law beside her (think he just trying to cheer me by saying that) I know there will come a time when she is sleeping most of the nite too but for now I am grateful that she is sitting in her recliner, giving me the odd wave and the biggest smile that shows the bond between us is still there which is so lovely.

    Take care folks (((((((HUGS to Emma and Carrie and their families)))))))))))))))))))))

    Speak to you all soon
    Lorraine xx
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    Hi Everyone

    I have noticed that like me trying to presents for family members when all the want to have is their health back is really hard.

    I would like to recommend a website - http://www.bobbooks.co.uk/

    I produced a beautiful book for my parents in less than three weeks altogether for their Golden Wedding Anniversary. I had all their old slides transferred to a disc and then made up the book using the website. You can produce calendars as well.
    I was told about it by a friend and it is something that my Dad will be able to look back on in the future. Another thing is digital photo frames, or buy a star and name it for them.

    Take Care Allison xx


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    just a quick one as I cant stop crying today,its so very very sad,I keep thinking about the loss of 3 wonderful men to 3 fabulous wifes and it justs takes over me completely!!

    Eileen-Glad to hera Rob is ok (and long may he feel that wayI )hope he does a good job of cleaning out the pond(its crazy that when your loved ones are ok that we think whats coming around the corner this bloody illness seems to give us all moments of happiness and then sadness)

    jakitty-thanks for sharing your experience with your sister Im glad it wasnt the tumour.I ve heard from many people that PCV when the person can tollerate it can be extremly sucesfull as can many of the older chemotherapy drugs.One guy at Sheffield has only had PCV and is till with us after 2years!!I hope it carries on workingl for her.Was she offered any other chemo?like temodol?

    Joan-I love reading your posts its like reading my thoughts full of bloody hatred for GBMs and the toll that this illness takes on everyone involved!!!I hope D is still well keep the hoping petalxxxxx

    Lorraine-Its awful when you watch your parent go through such changes...my Dad goes through stsges of tiredness and seems to have good days and then really bad ones where he is imobile and asleep...but just keep on smiling and hoping for tomorrow time is precious and boy dont we all know it!!

    Lesley-so glad to hear your dad had a lovely 60th birthday,Im sure you all made it extra special for himxx

    Gayle-Hope Martin is feeling a little better,Dad still has a mouth full of ulcers after 7weeks nothing they can do!!LOve to Martine
    Dianne,Ch,Izzy and all the other wonderful people sending you all strength and support to get through hopefully a peaceful night for us all.

    Jay Emma Carrie love and hugs for you three super ladies thinking of you all wishing I could help in some way? xxx

    Debbiexxx




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    Hi folks,

    Emma & Carrie - just want to let you know Im thinking of you two lovely ladies. The sadness and disbelief is still unbelievable - much love and strength. xx

    Gayle - Hope Martin's chest infection is improving. Martine will be on school holidays now wont she? Hope we get some nice weather for all the kids on hols. x

    Becca - your soo good doing the 10k - pics at the finish line on facebook please lol! That sounds a lovely thing to do for your dad's 60th - i think i told you i was making up an album and i'll give it to him when he gets home at the weekend - you made one for your mum and dad a few months ago didnt you? - was crying at loads of the pictures, such fantastic memories - was also in hysterics at all the pictures of my sisters outfits over the years - they gave me some relief from the sadness! No ribenas im afraid...just cups of tetley!x

    Lorraine - nice to hear from you again love! Did you get an answer back from Shanne about your mum's scan? I've never emailed her - i always phone - although she would probably use the word "stalk"! I dont think Scott is just saying that to cheer you up - your wee mum will most definatley perk up when she knows her favourite people are there just being with her. Enjoy your wee break from work...hope the sun shines for you...so true in saying the sun makes you feel happy....it was boiling (sort of!) in Edinburgh last Thurs and its the happiest ive been in yonks....horrible and windy today and im in a crap mood!! x

    Eileen - I've just realise you live in Scotland - where is your hubby treated?? Hope your both enjoying the rubber gloves! Great if he gets an interest back in gardening, especially with the summer months coming up. I find that one of the sadest things - there's nothing much left that my dad can do that he was interested in - he's found a new hobby in trying to do the daily record crossword mind and he still loves to watch a game of footie - actually, he now watches corrie and emmerdale with my mum...something he completley detested before, strange!!

    Debbie - hope you had a nice break at Haven - Amber was only 4 months when we went to Haggerston castle for a long weekend - it was fab...there's something nice and quaint about staying in a caravan!

    Jakkity - no experience of PCV im afraid...or any chemo for that matter. I know its the older chemo but I think a few people on the thread maybe no more about it...hope someone comes along to help you out. x

    Alison - thanks for the link to the website - will have a wee look in a bit. Your right about the only thing they would want is there health back....i would give up everything i own for that. xx

    Well it looks like my dad may be getting out on Thursday...he now has a very angry cellulitus infection in the top of the leg which had the DVT...just to make things more complicated...so he's on antibiotics. I still find him confused and coming out with bizzare statements...he thought the people at the next table in the WRVS were talking about us...they obviously werent...anyway,

    much love to joan, izzy, susan, diane, Rona, Jay and everyone i havent mentioned.
    lesley xxx