My father in law had just been diagnosed- lung , kidney and its in his glands . He's been in hospital now for over a month with pneumonia and he has dementia with delirium. We have been advised he has 3 months to live. I just don't know how best to support my husband through this terrible time. Sometimes I feel like I want to say things but don't want to be patronising. I lost my own dad to a sudden heart attack 13 years ago so it brings up emotions for me but I understand its not the same.
