Hello everyone,i am in desperate need of help and advice.My poor son has bowel cancer,that has now spread to his liver,lungs and bones.I am terrified.What is making it even worse is his girlfriend has been coercively controlling him.They have been together a few years and have a small child together.He wont have anything said against her.
Now she has started bullying myself and my husband.We are pensioners and are finding everthing very hard to cope with.They live with her family.We refused to do something she told us to do,because it was unreasonable,and since then she is making our lives hell.She has told lies about us to all her family and friends ,so now nobody speaks to us when we visit our son at the house.She's even telling lies about us to our son.she wont let us see our grandchild.When we visit she goes out with our grandchild ,so we can't see them.Now her mother has started doing the same.We've been visiting our son and asked him if our grandchild will be there ,so we can give them there christmas presents,but they keep taking them out,so we bring the presents back home again.I have never in my life met such cruel people.I really dont know how they can put my son and his child through this.He is seriously ill,and this is so much stress,but he still wont see how cruel they are being.i am so,so sad and very down.all i seem to do is cry,but i cant see a way out.It feels as if we are stuck in nightmare.It's no good trying to talk to the mother and daughter,they have no empathy for as at all.All we want is to be there to love and support our son and spend some time with our grandchild.i could never treat another human being like this ,and just dont know what to do.
