Hi,
As the title suggests, i am new here and feeling rather overwhelmed and frustrated if I am honest, I don't know where to start.
My dad has cancer, prostate cancer which has spread to his bones. He is in his 70's. The consultant seems unproductive, he did a round of chemo but won't talk numbers, or next steps he just keeps saying "see you In six months" which was 12 months ago. i don't even mean survival numbers i mean anything, he won't say about test results or tell us anything (my dad has not requested this to be the case either). Looking on the forums people talk numbers and tests and things i don't even understand ...
I am in my 30's and a carer by profession as well as being a carer for my dad, i have 2 siblings but it will be me picking up with this for my mum (who is his main carer) and i am trying to accept that or more like it understand what it means without sounding sefish.
the current thing is my dad seems depressed, he is always tired and doesn't have an appetite or doesn't want to do anything (more than his cancer symptoms) and i don't know how to go about finding himself someone to connect too or he can talk to so he knows he isn't alone.
Just a hello i guess?
