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Hello  Cornflakecrunch and welcome to the forum, I am so sorry to hear about your dad and how emotional it is for you, I cared for mum when she had terminal cancer and it takes a lot out of you physically and the emotional side can be even harder. The best thing you can do now is to  get all the help and support available to your dad in place, Your GP should help with referrals to a district nurse and the palliative nursing team who can make sure anything your dad nay need is ready for him. It would help to talk to a social worker as well. as they will support you as well as your dad. I am happy your dad is doing ok, you say you think your dad is hiding his feelings, i wouldn't know, but i can say i have terminal cancer and i keep things from my daughters. Looking after my mum was difficult, but rewarding, we grew even closer and had many more good days than bad, after diagnosis. You are taking on a lot looking after your dad as well as your family but don't forget yo look after yourself as well, give yourself a little time every day to do something you like and it will benefit all your family and remember the most important thing regarding you dads care is that he knows he is loved. please take care.

Eddie