Hi all, my wife has just been diagnosed with bowel cancer and has had surgery - a bowel resection - and is going to have some follow up chemo. We're thinking positive and I'm trying to be strong but it's so hard sometimes.
Hi and a warm welcome to the Online Community. I'm so sorry to read of your wife's diagnosis and surgery. I hope she's doing well after her surgery.
I have a different cancer to your wife but I see you've joined our supportive our Bowel cancer group, this will be a good place to connect with others supporting a family member on the same type of cancer journey. I've also tagged the Community Champion court who'll be along to welcome you.
It’s always helpful to others if you write a little something (or a lot) about yourself and your journey to date. You can enter it into your profile (click on your username and select “Profile”) It’s helpful to other members with a similar diagnosis who can then hopefully answer your questions. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. You can amend or update it at any time.
The Macmillan Support Services also offer lots of information, support, financial guidance or just someone to listen. It’s free to call 0808 808 0000. Most services are available 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week. Have a look by Clicking here to see what is available and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two to three working days for replies from our expert team.
Sending you welcoming hugs B xx
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Hi
Warm welcome from me! Please do come and join in the Bowel cancer forum . Everyone there understands the emotional impact a cancer diagnosis either as patient or relative ! Lots of advise and sharing of information which might assist you both as you move forward ,
So pleased to hear she is safely through surgery ! It’s great you are trying to be strong but please be encouraged that all of us struggle with that too. You are only human .
I will look out for you posting when you feel ready .
Take care and send our best wishes to your wife .
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