My mom's now terminal

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I've recently found out there is nothing more than they do for my mom and noone is giving me a time frame. She's not really that old either(51)Seeing her deteriote is so hard and I don't know how I'm going to cope when she goes. There's so many things we wanted to do and because of covid never got too. I know there will be people worse off than us and have experienced worse and I feel so guilty for having the feelings I do. I also need to tell my children. I just needed to write some of this down so sorry if it doesn't make sense. 

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    FormerMember

    Hiya lou sorry to hear about ur mums diagnoses... I'm the same my dad has terminal prostate cancer and its spread round his body.. there's nothing they can do for him either... I can relate to this as I had to sit my children down.and tell them.to it broke my heart... my dad has being giving a time limit... which makes it even harder... I totally relate to this post... if u ever need a private chat my message box is open don't be afraid to message me... sending big hugs to u nd ur family.xxxxx

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Kelly. Sorry to hear about your dad also.

    My mom was given all clear and just a few months later they found it had actually spread to her brain. This was almost a year ago so I know it won't be long.

    It is so hard and I'm new to this forum but im already finding it comforting knowing there's nice people on here.

    Sending hugs to you also xx

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    I'm new also well couple of weeks... I've been on here.. yeah my dads is the same pelvis lungs ribs back spine he's going yellow really tired etc...slowing down his care plan etc all in place... its such a devasting time for us both.... but some how we got to have the strength to keep going... take one day at time.. nd make memories weather is just staying in watching old movies etc... but like I said u needed go threw things on ur own... don't hesitate to.message me day or night privately if u wish... thankyou so much for the hugs... hard as it is try nd stay strong xxxx