NEED A FREINDLY EAR BOTH PARENTS WITH TERMINAL CANCEL

Hi Jilly42 welcome to the forum. I read and re read your post and I am in total disbelief about what has happened for you and your family in such a short space of time. If I'm in disbelief at reading it I dont know what it must feel like for you living it.

Do you have any other brothers or sister that could help or not? You do really need someone that you can talk to and if I could maybe suggest if you felt able to give the Macmillan Line a  call and have  a chat with them and they have heard us all cry so dont worry about that they are used to us.08088080000.

It must be very difficult for you being torn between wanting to visit your parents but also having to decide if you can deal with how this leaves you feeling afterwards in respect of your own health.

I wish I could say something to you that would make some of this any better but unfortunately I cant do that but I hope it helps to know that we are here for you and will listen and respond as much as we are able so that you dont feel alone in this.

Sending some heartfelt hugs your way for now. x

Thank you gail  for your virtual hug x 

I have 2 sisters but i feel we are all hurting they help mum and dad out a lot which i cannot do physically one sister does there housework and the other stays overnight xx 

Do u think they will give dad anything or do you think this might be the end xx 

And do the oncologist tell my dad if the cancer has spread everywhere. he does know hes getting worse and he’s expecting bad news x

and also has anyone ever had a loved one with colon cancer stage 4 getting folfox chemo how did they get on did it work xx

i have a CPN to speak to each weekx which helps a bit but the pain i feel is like nothing i have ever felt before xx