Hello
I am writing on here for some support and advice regarding my fathers diagnosis. He is currently at home and recieving pallitave home treatment where the nurses come and check on him regularly and help change his bag and dressing etc. We found out it was terminal in September 2018, it began in his bladder as a tumour, then became metastaic and travelled to both his lungs and pretty much all of his lymph nodes. In the process of the cancer spreading his left kidney also failed so he now has a stent and bag permanently. Then just a couple of month ago we found that the cancer had spread to his liver also. We have not been given a time scale from the diagnosis however we have been told he does not have very long left. He has had some amazing help from Macmillan themselves however I am just struggling with how to prepare for what is yet to come, any advice on how to make him feel more comfortable would be greatly appreciated and any other organisations or support groups I can become part of to help would be great. I am only 24 years of age, my father is 71 and my mother is 50. My mother has other life threatening illnesses so I find it very stressful and this is probably the first time I've wrote in depth about it apart from when I did a fundraising event for go sober October. Any advice or help is greatly appreciated
Kind regards xx
