hi, my Mum was diagnosed with gallbladder cancer earlier this year and give a 6-12 month life expectancy, potentially more with chemo. She’s had 1 round of chemo but suffered complications and ended up with sepsis which has not only left her very weak but seems to have drained all the fight out of her. She’s 77 and was previously in good health. Luckily she still has my Dad to care for her. I don’t know how to support them both as my Mums negative attitude is having an adverse affect on Dad. My Dad at 80 is quite computer savvy and I’ve suggested this forum for him but he’s of a generation that doesn’t like to “ bother “ others with his woes, I think he feels guilty about thinking about himself. He won’t go and speak to anyone as he doesn’t like to leave Mum on her own, how can I support them?
Hi and welcome to the online community although I'm sorry you've had to find us
It's natural that you want to do everything you can to support your mum and dad and you might find some helpful hints in this information from Macmillan on What You Can Do to Help.
I see that you posted a question on what sort of meals your dad could prepare for your mum and I don't know if you've seen the reply from dietitian Alice. If not clicking here will take you to it.
I'm also tagging this group's Community Champion src60 into my reply as he'll probably be able to help you further.
Sending a supportive ((hug))
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