Having a bad day

Hello all,

How am I, Same as Yantibee I guess except thatMIL is in need of big big levels of care, still in hospital and being looked after though.

Must be so so draining Jenny for your dad and you.

Keep thinking I must do something on my own for me but I don't know what. Guess I'm not brave or strong enough 

Love to all.  Xx

Or at least not yet! 

Do what you can now everyone.   Our time when our bodies work is brief.

MM sorry you're poorly today.

Dad exhausted with everything. 

I'm v drained. Sister back tomorrow. ..

Hug.

Jx

Hi,

How are you all?

Am having good and bad days.  Round mum's this morning clearing a bit more stuff.  I opened a cupboard and found her notes from the carers.  Just swept over me again. 

A friend, who's mum died about ten years ago, told me that it will always hurt but it does ease.  I know she's right but at the moment I don't feel that it's true.  Sometimes it's a physical pain.  Can't believe it's nearly 6 months.

Hugs to all.

X

Hi Elenium,

I remember my best friend told me the same thing. She says she still looks at something when she's out shopping and will think "Mum would love that for her birthday". 

Huge Hugs

Sue xx

Bobles,

Just start with something small. Go to the cinema. Have lunch at a pretty cafe. Do a coach day trip. It's surprising how liberating it is. 

Hugs

Sue xxx

Bobles. You put one foot in front of the other. Im sure at one point that was hard. My close close friend who is 79, lost his wife 3 years ago, has prostrate cancer, regulatky hust books a mystery coach trip. He gets on, enjoys the not having to think and goes with the flow. Twist of life, he has same oncologist as mum. I digress. If you are in london and wanted to meet for a show or coffee just say xxx

Sue, think i just repeated what you said x

Maisiemae

That's because great minds think alike! Lol

Xxx

Hello,

Thank you all. You are all wonderful and supportive, loving as always.

Had a meltdown with the nurses tonight after  visiting mil, they were lovely. Mil is really poorly I know but she told me she hated me and Bob would be ashamed of me in the way she was being looked after but I know she is being really well cared for and I really can't care for her at my home. But feel really really guilty.

Night all, another day tomorrow xxxx

Thank you Maisiemai xxxxxx