Mums diagnosis

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Hi, 

I’m new to this and thought this could be helpful. We recently found out my mum has ovarian cancer. I’m 21 and my mum is my best friend. I am so scared and am trying to be by her side as much as possible. Every single day I’m trying to see the good but I am really struggling and finding right now really hard. I’m not really sure what the point in this post was, but if anybody ever wants a chat or anything I’m here. X

  • Hi  I am sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis and the challenges you are having to deal with.

    A cancer diagnosis in the family like this can be such a challenging and stressful time but getting support from others who are dealing with the ‘exact same' support challenges can help you a lot.

    The Community is actually divided into dedicated Support Groups (Discussion Rooms) so can I recommend you look to join and post in our dedicated…….

      Ovarian cancer

    ……. support group.

    This group is a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same support journey.

    As for the practical and emotional challenges of supporting your mum and indeed yourself you may benefit from joining and posting in our……

      Family and Friends

      Carers only (if you are her caregiver)

    ……. support groups where you will connect with a wide range of members navigating the exact same support challenges.

    It is an emotional time supporting family so you might find this Macmillan information your feelings when someone has cancer helpful as well as this link getting help with your emotions.

    The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear.

    Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.

    Do get back to me if you need further help.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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  • Hi, I was about your age when my mum was diagnosed long ago and like you my mum was my world. I had many happy years with my mum and I hope you have that too. So many people get through and live long and happy lives and your mum is so lucky to have such a loving daughter. Stay strong xx

  • Hi, 

    I appreciate your reply so much. Thank you! It means a lot. Hope you’re doing well x