I'm losing my mum

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To whoever reads this 

I don't know where to start , my mum's been given very few months left the cancer has progressed and treatment is no more 

I am devastated my mum is my world and my only person left who is always been the person I go to for everything advice, love, a cry I have nobody else it's always been me and her I can't be without her in the world I have no kids no family no friends it's always just me and her 

Please please help me

Tell me how I am going to get through this and how do you make this unbearable pain stop 

I am 32 years old and my mum is 58 years old 

My name's Toni please help me with advice I'm begging you 

Thank you in advance if you comment xx

  • Hi Toni  , I am so sorry to hear about your mum.... this is such a hard time for you. 

    I have no experience with regards to what you are dealing with but it you may help to join and posting in our……

         Carers only

         Supporting someone with incurable cancer

    ……. support groups where you will connect with a wide range of members navigating the exact same support challenges.

    It is an emotional time supporting family so you might find this Macmillan information your feelings when someone has cancer helpful as well as this link getting help with your emotions.

    The Macmillan Support Line is open between 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00…… this service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear.

    Talking to people ‘face to face’ can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.

    ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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  • Hi Toni

    I've just seen your post. I have recently lost my Mum who was also my world. It is devastating no other word for it and you can't imagine life going on. Dear Toni, remember I'm sure your mother would want you to be happy so seek support from a bereavement support group. We now have to find a new normal whatever that will be. Its time to build a new life and please remember there are good people out there. 

    Kizzi

  • I lost my mum on the 12th April the pain is unbearable isn't it , my mum was only 58. I'm so sorry for your loss sweetheart just unimaginable isn't it xx