Not well enough - partner doesn't seem to understand

Hi njl,Sorry you are feeling rough.It’s important to look after youself and try not to feel guilty.I hope you get over your cold soon.Far better to go away when you are feeling stronger than to go now and feel rotten.Love Jane xx

Hello njl

I hope you are feeling a bit better today.   As Winker says, it is best to go away when you are feeling well enough to enjoy it.   Its natural for you both to feel disappointment.  Sometimes we can carry the disappointment of others and I am wondering if you are perhaps carrying your hubby's disappointment also?    So you carry your own disappointment, your hubby's as well as feeling unwell - alongside managing secondary breast cancer.   That is quite a lot to be carrying and dealing with.....  I hope you are able to look after yourself and put some things in the day (however small) that are just for you.  Even if it is as simple as a favourite hot drink and something that distracts you from your worries.    Hugs are sent your way.

Thank you so much, I often forget how much it is to deal with as I'm always fussing over everyone else (just my nature I guess). Hugs with the dog and cups of tea today I think.