Cutting myself off

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I was diagnosed with bladder cancer 4 years ago. I have suffered one recurrence and am continuing with BCG and Cystoscopy checks six monthly. I am a single man and I’m struggling. I’m cutting myself off from friends and family but feel very lonely. My Mum died from Bladder Cancer as it spread after not being diagnosed properly, so my cancer had brought back feelings around her death as I was only 14 when it happened. I feel a burden on people and feel I spoil the mood in any social gathering due to my cancer. So I dont go out to meet people which leaves me feeling very lonely. I’ve been in dark places and thought about dark things. Any suggestions?