Guys,
How do I stop making this all about me? I can’t change anything now. How can I stop feeling sorry for myself?
My better half has been so brilliant in all of this. I’m getting married under a special licence on Saturday. This needs to be about her, not me. This needs to be her big day, she has waited years for me to ask her to marry me and it took this crap to get me over the line.
Our kids have been brilliant too. I’ve spoken more to my eldest girls in the past 2 weeks than in the past 2 years. I don’t want them just feeling sorry for me though.
Like I said, any ideas on how to make this about them and not me would be great fully received.
Hi Rameses
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and I hope you have an incredible day!
Maybe I'm wrong but I'm sure you don't need to worry about upstaging the bride in any way. I'm sure everyone who is attending the wedding is aware of your circumstances and will only be concentrating on making the day as special as possible for you both.
I hope you all have a fabulous day
"Never regret a day in your life, good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience"
Hi Rameses and congratulations for your upcoming nuptials tomorrow. Forget about everything except you two, your kids, family, friends and the day. It'll be a day for all to celebrate, people get married for all sorts of reasons and at any time. Release the guilt too, love is a bloody great thing and it makes the world a good place so enjoy x wishing you both all the best for a lovely day tomorrow. 
