Lost and scared

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My cancer journey started over 3 months ago! I was struggling to breath and I thought I had a chest infection after a trip to the doctor he gave me antibiotics! They didn’t touch it so I returned and was given different antibiotics same again didn’t touch it! I phoned 111 as I was really struggling to breath and they sent a ambulance I waited a long time on a&e and was sent for a chest x ray x I had fluid on my lung x my lung needed draining so I had to stay in x while I was in I was sent for a ct scan which found a large mass on my ovary it was a tumour! I was in and out of the hospital a lot in the next 3 months as the tumour was causing the fluid but they wasn’t dealing with the tumour straight away so my lung kept filling with fluid x eventually I had a drain put in to stay in so I could get the lung drained at home! (Over 80hours sat on a&e to get my lung drained) I then had a meeting with a surgeon at Leeds who had said it would be best to have a full hysterectomy so I went in a few days later for surgery! Whilst in surgery they found a lump in my bowel and some nobules in my rectum x they removed part of my colon and they removed the lump in my bowel! My recovery was painful but after 8 days I came home to spend Christmas with my family x 2 weeks later I met with my surgeon again for the results and she said it’s a low grade cancer it started in my appendix which is close to the bowel and ovaries that’s why i ended up with the tumour x I’m waiting for the mdt on Monday to see what treatment I’ll need x if anyone has had a similar experience I’d love to here from you xx regards sally Delilah xx 

  • Hi , I see this is your first post on the community so warm welcome although I am so sorry to hear about the journey you have been on.

    This is such a challenging and stressful time for you but I do hope you will find lots of support and comfort as you interact on the Online Community. 

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    Talking to people face to face can indeed help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing.

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    All the very best ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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