Hi all
I first posted the below at 6am ish this morning in the bowel cancer group but thought someone here may be able to help
I feel a bit bad about writing to the forum about this as my husband is only in his first cycle (Oxaliplatin 3rd April then Capecitabine) but he is suffering with constant diarrhoea for the last 4 days despite taking Imodium. He is also since Friday had vomiting after any food and the anti sickness Metoclopramide seems to make it worse. I telephoned the hospital yesterday for advice and they wanted him to go in for rehydration but He would not go as it is a 45 minute journey and He was too scared of having a bowel issue on the way.
He has started saying that he cannot do this and will take his chances. He has stage 4 with tumours on both the colon and appendix removed by surgery beginning of March via a hemicolectomy but fortunately no stoma. Lymph nodes found in pertituneum so hence chemo.
I don't know how to react to this as it is his decision but totally scares me. He is get getting very depressed and anything i say is taken the wrong way by him and he says i don't understand what it is like which is true but I am doing my best to help in any way I can
Can anyone please give me some advice. Does he need his dosage reduced or something else tweaked to help us get through this. He still has 7 cycles to go which feels like climbing Everest!!!
His 1st week off starts on Wednesday so I am praying he will feel better and be more positive going forward
Emmarc